On January 8, 2024, I had the pleasure of appearing on the “Making it Awkward” podcast.  This podcast is hosted by Jessica Wilson, MS, RD, and Whitney Trotter, DNP.

Some of their past topics included: Feeling Aligned in Queer Fashion, BMI and Transcare, Things Got Awkward at the Trans Health Summit, The Research on BMI and Gender Affirming Care, Is Non-Binary Identity a 3^rd Gender Category, and other important topics. At first glance, the lens utilized by the hosts on these and other topics would be very different than mine. Or is it?

When asked to appear, I did not hesitate for a second.

And so, the day arrived. Right out of the gate, the questions were hard hitting. And yet, they were fair. Potentially sensitive issues, issues which many would consider awkward, were addressed.  

There is no doubt that on many issues, our views were very different… at times maybe even polar opposite. However, at all times, as we discussed these topics, there was a feeling of respect, of professionalism, of courtesy.

If asked back, I would agree in a heartbeat.

As I reflected back upon our interaction, perhaps I gained a bit of insight. And that is, on sensitive issues, issues and topics which have the potential to be incredibly awkward, perhaps respecting the person, of treating each other with courtesy, with respect, with civility is the best weapon to diffuse these awkward topics and issues. To turn awkward issues into issues upon which we can work together even if we maintain divergent points of view. That is a special gift.

So, Whitney and Jessica, thank you for that gift.

I look forward to future interactions with you both!